Tomorrow Never Comes
We have no input to life’s clock even though we always seem
to think we have tomorrow to take care of the things needing care. To say the things needing to be said or to do
the things needing to be done. The problem
with tomorrow is it never comes. While we
may think we have tomorrow this past week reminds us how uncertain tomorrow is,
reminding us once again that our biggest regrets may be the words unsaid or the
actions not taken. This past week clearly
reminds us how important it is to say those words and take those actions.
Looking Back
Time seems to sneak up on all of us and is something we can
never get back. What if you never let the
people in your life know how important they have been to you or the impressions
they make on your life, is it a regret you can live with when their time runs
out? What are the things you have missed
out on because there is always tomorrow which never comes? If you could go back in time to speak with a
younger version of yourself, say 18 years old, what would you tell yourself? If you either stepped back in time or you
could leap forward to when you are 80 years old who would you want to ask for
advice? The 80 year old would say – go live
your life. Live it well, without
regrets, without fear. Live your life
with purpose giving it all you have and never give up. “A life worth living
might be measured in many ways, but the one way that stands above all others is
living a life of no regrets.” – Gary Keller.
Regrets
Bronnie Ware’s 2012 book The
Top Five Regrets of The Dying listed the top five most listed regrets by
those close to dying.
5. I wish
that I’d let myself be happier.
Remember happiness is a choice you make.
4. I
wish I’d stayed in touch with my friends.
You fail at giving time and effort our family and friends deserve.
3. I
wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
Many times your
feelings seem too heavy to handle.
2. I
wish I hadn’t worked so hard.
You spend too much time making a living and too little time building a
great life.
1. I
wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others
expected of me.
You
decide to settle for half-filled dreams and to live with unfulfilled hopes.
So are you living a life of no regrets? Do you know what is most important and what
matters most? When you look back on your
life it will be the things that you did not do that will plague you the most
with feelings of regret. “Twenty years
from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by
the ones you did do. So throw off the
bowlines. Sail away from the safe
harbor. Catch the trade winds in your
sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” – Mark Twain.
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